When I was growing up, there was a toy that many of us played with called a Magic 8-Ball. Manufactured by Mattel, it looked like a pool table 8-ball but had an icosahedral sided die inside. When you asked a question and then shook the ball, one side of the die would show up through a window to give you an answer. But I was thinking about how we often have a set of ready answers when it comes to having sex in marriage. But you know what?